How to save your marriage, if you’ve got marriage or marital problems.
Now, I am not a marriage guidance counselor, I am a trained medium and also a trained healer and although it doesn’t qualify me to be a marriage guidance counselor, I do know quite a lot about how it all functions and possibly why your marriage is failing and I’d like to help you save your marriage, if I can.
I’m addressing today, those people who are living in a marital relationship, whether you’re legally married or not, doesn’t matter.
You’re living as man and wife with possibly one or more children or not and you’ve got problems.
I’m not addressing those couples whose families are working fine, I’m not talking to them.
I’m not talking to single people.
I’m not talking to people that are in a same sex relationship, unless, of course, you have children, in which case, you might have problems.
This is aimed, primarily, at people, men and women primarily, that are living together in a marital relationship with children and their relationship is breaking up.
Now, there are a number of reasons why marriages can break up.
I want you to know this, a decision was made, a long time ago, to destroy, as best they can, this group of people that want to destroy as best they can, your relationships so that they can take control of your children and raise them according to their desires.
Now, this sounds a bit crazy but I assure you that it’s actually true.
This group of people are quite, we could say, evil, they just want total domination.
They’re very rich people, they have lots more money than they can possibly spend but they want power, they want total control.
They want to be able to keep everything under their control and one of the ways they want to do it
is to break up marriages and they found that the best way to do that, would be to create a kind of a money trap and I’m going to explain how it works and suggest ways of counteracting this evil system that they’ve tried to put in place.
Now, let’s take a hypothetical situation.
This may or may not apply to you.
It probably won’t apply to you exactly but I hope you’ll see the point I’m trying make.
Typically, a young couple meets, you fall in love and you decide to live together.
You get a little flat somewhere or a small house and you start to live together.
You may or may not get legally married, that doesn’t matter, if you love each other and live together, in God’s eyes, you’re married and that’s all that counts.
Now then, at some stage, you may think about starting a family and this is where the trap starts to close on you.
What typically happens then is that the lady becomes pregnant and eventually, she’d have to give up work for a while because she can’t work in the last stage of her pregnancy, she needs to stay at home and once the baby’s born, obviously, she needs to stay at home for a while to look after it, all perfectly logical.
Adding to that, on TV and social media, there’s endless programs, pushing you to throw away all your old stuff and buy new and so on.
So now, of course, the first thing that happens is you say, oh, at the moment we live in quite a small flat or house, we can’t possibly stay here when baby arrives, we need a bigger place because we need a bedroom for the baby and so, up comes the new house, or flat or whatever, it’s gonna be more expensive than what you had before, you can be sure of that.
Then, you might be driving about in an old car, a perfectly good car, might be 10 years old but oh, we can’t drive about in this, when the baby comes, we got to have the new car and on the TV, you’ll see endless adverts, telling you to go to your local showrooms to sign up for a brand new car.
So, for the baby’s sake, you have the brand-new car and it goes on and on and on like that.
You can’t possibly have an old kitchen because it’s not hygienic, you need to have brand new marble surfaces everywhere.
So, a brand-new kitchen arrives worth 1,000’s and 1,000’s of whatever currency you’re using.
Do you understand the point I’m saying?
I hope I’m not criticizing anybody; I’m just pointing out the way it typically works.
Then eventually, in quite a number of cases, you get to the point where obviously the wife’s happy to give up work for a while, you get to the point where the salary is coming in or the salary coming in is not paying all these debts and so, you say, oh, let’s borrow some money.
That’s all we can do, if we don’t borrow some money we’re going to become bankrupt, it is going to happen, we’re going to lose the house and so you pick up the phone, you find one of these finance companies and with a few details, the money’s in your account.
You already have trouble paying your debts so, once again, you very quickly find, once you spent that money that you borrowed, that your salaries still not covering it and then you start to blame each other, you start to shout at each other, you’re worried about your wits, you can’t concentrate on anything else because every day, you’ll get into threatening demands coming through from the higher companies.
Your car is in arrears of payments, your house or flat is in arrears of payments, all the kitchen stuff you bought on credit is in arrears of payments and it goes on and on and on like this and in the end, you can’t go on like this and you break up.
Now, obviously, I am not saying that this happens to every couple.
I’m just painting a little picture of the way I’ve seen it happen with so many of my younger friends and I don’t want it to happen to you.
Now, this is the question.
If you think that what I’ve been saying makes sense and applies to you in some way, shape or form, what can you do about it because as I told you, these people are after controlling your kids and when you to break up, they’ve got a greater chance of getting in, for the schools and the social service people putting kids in homes.
They’ve got more chance of getting hold of your kids so they can brainwash them to be useless zombies which is what they’re trying to do.
Now, the answer is simple.
Stop that crazy way of life.
If you’re a couple that are thinking of having a child and you’re thinking of having to get a bigger house or bigger, newer car, to buy the newer kitchen, don’t, just simply don’t.
Stop watching all that stuff on TV, where they show you with all these Do It Yourself programs, where people have magnificent kitchens coming in and magnificent paint going up on the walls and everything because all that is financed by the do it yourself companies that you will be going to spend your money to try and ape what they’re showing you on TV.
Don’t fall for it.
It’s as simple as that.
Keep your money in the bank, in your pocket and try and live within your means.
If you’re a couple that has already gone down that road, think about what you can do to save the situation before it gets out of hand.
Maybe sell the car, I know you’re going to lose money on it but maybe sell the car and buy a little reliable second-hand one which will probably be a lot more reliable than this new one that you got with its planned obsolescence which is all planned to break down in a few months time.
Also, the repairs are very, very expensive, as you probably know.
So, maybe sell that and buy a cheaper second-hand car, without all this modern computer technology in it.
If you’re living in a house that’s too big, you can’t really afford, then get rid of it and move into a cheaper one.
If you own it, maybe rent it out and still move into something a bit small.
The idea being, that you live within your means so that you don’t have all these bills piling up and you’re not arguing and shouting at each other all day long, blaming each other.
That doesn’t help at all, it’s just going to destroy the love that you had for each other.
The love that you had, when you fell in love at the beginning, should go through all your life together and the only way to do that is not to have these constant problems of money.
It was all planned as a trap for you to fall into.
Instead of buying the latest Xbox for your child so the kid can sit in front of the TV, destroying his brain.
In the evenings, think about turning all that off and sitting down and playing cards together, talk together.
When the kids go to bed, read them a bedtime story, spend time together as a family unit, go for walks on the weekend.
Stop all this idea of having to go for fancy holidays every summer, going skiing every winter, it is just a waste of money, spend time together as a family and your kids will accept all that and they will be happy that you’re spending time with them and your relationship, hopefully will stay together.
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